On his 99th birthday, comedian George Burns was asked,
"What is the secret to a long life?"
Burns replied, "Keep breathing."
I would amend his answer and add, "Keep laughing."
More and more medical research shows that a good sense of humor is linked
with longevity. The Bible says, "A merry heart doeth good like a medicine,"
and studies now bear out that pearl of ancient wisdom.
Today we recognize that one of the greatest assets humans can possess
in their golden years is a keen sense of humor. It's a natural tonic
for mind, body and spirit always at the ready to help us handle the
myriad challenges of advancing years.
Speaking to a group of seniors not long ago, I asked them, "What's funny
about aging?" Someone in the back shouted, "Nothing!" Then somebody
up front yelled, "Everything!" The audience laughed and applauded, except
for a few sourpusses. Some people would rather die than laugh. And many
do. As Phyllis Diller used to say, "Most grumps don't live longer
it just seems like it."
We all face a multitude of unavoidable hurdles in later years
coping with sudden change, learning to live with disability, dealing
with physical and mental infirmity, grappling with loss and loneliness.
None of these issues is particularly funny. But that's what humor is
for to help take the bite out of adversity. A humorous
attitude helps one maintain a positive perspective, which in turn helps
to minimize setbacks. Having the ability to face life with a light-hearted
attitude allows us to manage stress. It provides the resilience we need
to roll with the inevitable punches.
I received an e-mail recently from a woman who said her doctor told
her the best medicine to get through her cancer was to laugh. She embraced
his advice, and the good news is, she's now on the road to recovery.
And a friend who's got a great knack for seeing things funny recently
told me about her annual Medicare visit with her doctor. One of her
chief complaints was feeling tired all the time. The doc said, "You
need to get more exercise."
She said, "Nonsense. I get more exercise now than I ever did."
He asked her to explain.
"I'm forgetful," she said, "so I log several miles a day just walking
around the house looking for my keys and glasses. And since I'm not
as coordinated as I used to be, I drop things. So I'm constantly bending,
stretching and lifting. And my bladder is weak, so I have to run to
the toilet a million times day and night."
"I see," said the doctor. "Well, no wonder you're so tired."
Several years ago at a health conference, I had the pleasure of spending
time with Norman Cousins, the former editor of "Saturday Review". His
book, "Anatomy of an Illness" was a best seller. In it he described
how he survived a life-threatening ailment by incorporating belly laughs
into his daily medical regimen.
With the support of his doctors, he devised a plan to help combat his
illness by including large doses of laughter. The results were revelatory.
Ten minutes of belly laughs produced an anesthetic effect that allowed
at least two hours of pain-free sleep. Sedimentation rates taken before
and after those laughter exercises provided quantifiable evidence that
laughing is indeed good medicine.
When Cousins reported his findings in the "New England Journal of Medicine"
his article prompted more than 3000 letters of support from doctors
who had observed similar results in their patients.
Cousins' book opened new avenues in medical research, and forever changed
the thinking about the connection between humor and health. He told
me, "If negative forces like tension and stress could weaken the body
to the point where it could succumb to illness, then positive forces
confidence, joy, faith, hope, love, laughter and the will
to live might have the opposite effect." He also said
that humor interrupts the panic cycle of illness, and helps to restore
a feeling of well-being.
Since then, medical research has shown that laughter has a positive
effect on immunity, too. In fact, its benefits appear to be boundless.
Cousins called laughter "internal jogging." And studies have confirmed
that belly laughs produce some of the same cardiovascular benefits as
strenuous exercise. A good laugh can actually burn off calories. It
also stimulates circulation and aids digestion.
In a study of patients subjected to prolonged hospitalization, laughter
improved morale, decreased anxiety and restored a feeling of wellness
and calm.
For many, laughter reduces stress better than vodka or Valium. Plus
it's salt-free, low calorie, polyunsaturated, you don't need a prescription,
it doesn't cost a dime, and there are no harmful side effects.
For the chronologically advantaged, here's the best part
laughter can actually slow the aging process.
How do you put more humor into your life?
Start with this 5-step plan:
1. Make a personal Humor First Aid Kit for yourself. Nobody knows
what makes you laugh better than you do. Assemble a collection of everything
that really tickles your funny bone. Humorous books, jokes, stories,
movies, TV shows, cartoons, and magazine and newspaper clippings. These
will become a reliable source of laughter whenever you need a lift.
2. Laugh out loud. Big belly laughs are the best way to give
your funny bone and your entire system a
good workout. And since the physical act of laughing is so beneficial,
aim for at least 15 rib-rocking laughs every day. Laughing out loud
is contagious it spreads the joy around. Considering that
Mel Brooks, Carl Reiner and Jerry Lewis have each spent nine decades
laughing and making others laugh, it's entirely possible that spreading
laughter around might also contribute to longevity.
3. Laugh at yourself. The person who can chuckle at his or her
own expense will never run out of good comedy material.
4. Try to see the funny side of life no matter how unfunny
things might seem. Comedian Bob Hope said, "I have seen what a laugh
can do. It can transform almost unbearable tears into something bearable
even hopeful."
5. Expose yourself to something funny every day. Even if you
have to take off all your clothes and look in the mirror. But before
you cry, consider the words of comedian Phyllis Diller: "If you don't
have wrinkles, you haven't laughed enough.
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