POLLY PLATT

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Cultural Roots of US-French Friction

By Polly Platt, author of Savoir-Flair and French or Foe?



  
 

When the stag came out of the forest and saw a horse for the first time, he thought, "Well, there is a brother! But why is his head so bare in the middle of summer? How naked and sad he looks!" When the horse saw the stag, he thought, "Ah, here comes a brother from the forest! But what is that big pine tree on his head? How can he possibly run with all that?"

And so it is with the French and the Americans. They look pretty much alike, they're both republics flying the flags of freedom, the rule of law and the rights of man, and both have planetary missions with what they consider to be obvious universally accepted goals: the French to "civilize", a word they coined in 1601, the Americans to "democratize."

But when they sit down to work together, the French, their heads heavy with 1,500 years of invasions and catastrophes, are wary of rushing into things. They prefer analyzing and analyzing before committing themselves. Their first reaction to any new proposal is No!

Americans love new ideas, new adventures. Their immediate reaction is Yes! Let's try it! If it doesn't work, they'll try something else. Americans are like hang-gliders, flying free of a past more mirage-like than real. They itch to act. Fast.

So, working with the French, Americans get impatient. They groan, "Analysis paralysis!" The French dig in with more analysis. The Americans gripe that the French are exaggerating. The French sniff that the Americans are "simplistic" (Hubert Vedrine, French foreign minister, 2001). The Americans snap back that Vedrine has "the vapors" (Colin Powell, 2001).

Thus, misunderstandings creep in right away and Americans ask themselves, "French or Foe?" The title of my book is timelier than ever -- alas!

This merry-go-round has been going on for 200 years. It's called cultures. These two are worlds apart, while sharing many values. Americans are informal, Protestant and dedicated to achievement -- which often means making money, as in, "The business of America is business." They like questions to be simple and straightforward, and proposals to be concrete, boiled down to a paragraph; a sentence, if possible, and a short one. The French are formal, Roman Catholic, and interested in the quality of life. They are happy with abstractions, theories, ambiguities and paradoxes. A Frenchman strives for verbal inventiveness, intellectual elegance, lively reasoning and rigorous analysis. He sends his children to school all day with hours and hours devoted to that work of art, the French language. Many other hours are devoted to mathematics. Since the French Revolution, a Frenchman's level of math has been the yardstick for measuring his potential and his academic competence -- crucially important in a country awarding the top jobs to its brightest scholars. The results -- after much analysis! -- are the TGV (the superfast train), the Concorde, the Airbus, the Ariane space missions, the discovery of radium and the AIDs virus, the pasteurization of milk, etc.

Most important in France is how a person lives: his charm, his level of culture -- what he has read, seen and knows, his bearing and how and what he eats -- as well as his mastery of French. His life is a matter of being -- living in the present. Beauty and the poetry of life are braided into it. The way the baker twists the tissue around a croissant, the way a scarf is folded, the color of shutters and the form of the railings on street corners are part of the poetry of France, as is a bus driver waiting at a stop for a late passenger waving frantically at him across the street, and a hairdresser working hours of unpaid overtime on recalcitrant hair. Dominique de Villepin, the present French Foreign Minister, is a poet. President Chirac has said on television that he never goes to sleep without reading Apollinaire.

Beauty takes time. Living in the present means taking time to smell the roses or to count one's centimes, centime by centime, in the supermarket, without loud sighs coming from next customer.... which you would expect in the U.S., where Americans would already be worried about being late to their next appointment. Their present is 10 minutes from now. Their time is a taut ribbon, segmented and rigorously scheduled, while for the French, time flows or speeds up, according to what's happening.

American cultural anthropologist Edward T. Hall calls this the opposition of monochronics (punctual, one-thing-at-a-time people) to polychronic lateness-is-not-a-crime people, for whom time is more like a dot that expands and contracts than a ribbon. Americans, Germans, Scandinavians, Swiss, Canadians, Dutch and Britons are strict monochronics; the rest of the billions of the world's inhabitants are polychronics in varying degrees. Polychronic in their soul, the French adapt to monochronic time pressures when obviously appropriate; these days, they show up for meetings on time in their big multinationals and when negotiating with the famously time-obsessed monochronics. But their personal relations in Paris and all over the country are those of a village. In dealing with friends or civil servants or traders, they "take their time."

Their varying cultural perceptions of risk and of time were elements in the latest Franco-American flap. American leaders were in a hurry to get their boys to Baghdad; they counted on their ability to "shock and awe" to bring them a quick victory. The French, analyzing carefully, worried about the "after-Saddam" in that complex country prone to turbulence that they have had centuries of dealings with. They saw no proof that Saddam had "weapons of mass destruction" and consequently no urgency in invading Iraq; and many legal and humanitarian reasons not to. One of them was the likely increase of Islamic terrorism, which recent explosions in Saudi Arabia and Morocco would seem to vindicate. With six million Moslems in France, friendly relations with its Islam communities have been a priority of the present government. The French felt that the inspectors could continue their work and the Saddam Hussein regime would atrophy and gradually disappear, like Nasser's, bloodlessly. France has seen too closely, too often what happens in wars and after wars, and has been engaged since the last terrible war, World War II, in an exciting and entirely new historical experiment: joining voluntarily with other nations of Europe to give up portions of their sovereignty in order to avoid wars against each other forever.

In this current flap, both the U.S. and France acted out of what they perceived as their own interests, whether they said so or not, but both also acted according to the principles of their culture. Americans, convinced that their mission is universal, just and right, felt that since their power was dominant, their allies should agree with them and fall in line. The French, who have also always been convinced of their own mission of leading the side of the just and the fair, and have long been worried about what they perceive as the one remaining superpower's "unilateralism," were shocked that the U.S. demanded not counsel but obedience from its allies -- turning them into vassals not unlike Soviet satellites. As William Pfaff put it in a recent column, the French "are interested in a slow development of civilized and tolerant international relations, compromising on problems while avoiding catastrophes along the way." During the height of French domination of Europe, the French 17th century mathematician-sage Blaise Pascal, fearful of the law of the jungle, put it like this: "If there can be no justice without force, there must likewise be no force without justice."

What is new in this quarrel is the virulence of the American anti-French smears and ridicule, seen in Europe as a measure of this administration's determination to dominate or undermine. In their often stormy love affair --- and it is indeed a love affair, with strong passions sliding from time to time on both sides perilously close to hatred -- France and the U.S. have been like an old married couple that has adored each other for 50 years but argues interminably every day about trivia. In the past, the Franco-American flaps have been either commercial, about bananas, genetically modified corn, beef with hormones, etc. or diplomatic -- the southern command of NATO, the choice of the head of the UN, the supposed snub of French Foreign Minister Charette to American State Department Secretary Christopher. But this time, the accusations are acrimonious and irresponsible to the point of slander, and almost all have been coming at the French.

The French are not "flabby" and they're not "cowards." Just to name their 20th century wars, their bravery is a matter of record in two world wars, Indo China, Algeria, Tchad, the Gulf War, Kosovo, Afghanistan and the Ivory Coast. On May 16, in an unprecedented letter to the White House, the Pentagon, the State Department and several leading US newspapers, the French ambassador to the US denounced the disinformation and lies about his country in the American media, including the insinuation that the French government gave French passports to Iraqi leaders so that they could escape the country.

As for the so-called ingratitude of the French toward American soldiers fighting in France in two world wars, one has only to go to the war museum in Normandy to see how much the French appreciate American aid... and to remember that the French themselves lost over 120,000 soldiers in the Second World War and another 500,000 civilians in the Resistance, on top of their almost 2 million soldiers killed in World War I.

Speaking of memories, do Americans remember that it was the French treasury and its army and navy -- 44,000 men under Rochambeau -- who joined the American colonists to defeat the English during the American Revolution -- leaving 6,000 dead French soldiers on American soil? And do they remember how in 1793, President Washington broke the Franco-American treaty of 1778 and refused to help the French revolutionaries in their war against England? France felt doubly betrayed: by the breaking of the treaty, and by their allied republic's refusal to help in what they saw as their common cause, the war liberating Europeans from crowned heads.

France has never been a docile ally, but a convinced, independent one, and the only constant one. A signal that France, as friend and ally, understood only too well the American trauma of 9/11 was President Chirac's immediate flight, the first of a head of state, to the side of George W. Bush. For terrorist bombs have been exploding in France for years. Armed guards bristling with automatic weapons have been patrolling the airports. The gleaming, elegant metal trash cans on Paris street corners have been replaced by transparent plastic bags. That Paris's symbol, the Eiffel Tower, is still standing is thanks to the French secret services and the French anti-terrorist forces who overpowered Algerian terrorists in 1994 while their hijacked plane refueled in Marseilles.

I have no doubt that the two countries will kiss and make up. They must.

Franco-American cooperation in intelligence gathering since 9/11 has bolstered security and is vital in the war against terrorism, which may go on for years. Let's hope the imperial threats of Colin Powell and others that "France must pay" for its opposition to the Iraq invasion is just ephemeral rhetoric. Because of their different cultures rather than in spite of them, the two countries need each other more than ever in a world grown more and more interdependent and dangerous.


Adapted from an article by Polly Platt, published in Discover France.

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Polly Platt (1927-2008) was the bestselling American author and public speaker whose books tell you all you need to know about handling the French and enjoying France if you're visiting, living or working there. Learn more about Polly Platt.



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